You have lost your girlfriend because you are too controlling. She broke up with you and you can’t communicate with her. She sees everything you do as more of your controlling attitude. But you want to change, to show him your love. That’s how she can get a chance to do it.
There is a program that you can follow, like a recipe to fix a relationship. You will find links at the end of this article. It is easy and simple to follow; the only hard part is that it goes against your natural impulses. But it really is worth it and it works, almost like magic.
What we are trying to do here is show you how to get your girlfriend back. You have to show that you are no longer in control. The only way to demonstrate it is through actions like the ones I will tell you below.
First of all, you are going to do two things: write a letter and stop contacting her. Yes, I know you don’t want to stop. But you have to, or you’ll lose her forever. So write a quick letter to say that you’re okay with the breakup and that you think you both need some time apart. And you’ll be in touch sometime later. What you do next is at least as important.
You have to stay away from your girlfriend. You have to give her space and calm down. This will show that you have released your control. It will show that you’re busy (that’s why you can’t answer her calls right away, etc.) but still show that you love her and that you’ll be in touch. This makes her reconsider breaking up with her and makes her miss you and become interested in you again. If you want more explanation, you can find it in the sites at the end.
By doing things this way, you will demonstrate by your actions that you have learned your lesson. Now you have a good chance that he will start to think that you are ready to be with you again. Add to that that she misses you and she could easily be pulling in the same direction as you, and you could have your ex girlfriend back before you know it.
