Texting that cute girl you just met can seem like an intimidating process. The good news is that it is not impossible to reignite that spark between you. But the hard part is: taking out your phone and texting her!
While it can be challenging to seduce women through text messages, it doesn’t have to be. In many ways, it can actually be easier. You have words in your favor, as well as free time to think about what to say next.
Texting can be a powerful way to pique her interest and get her attracted to you. Here are 3 steps on how to seduce her through text messages.
1) Start by getting their attention
Women are often inundated with men sending them text messages, emails, and phone calls trying to get into bed with her. Imagine her coming in after being out all night, taking off her dress, and getting into bed. What is the first thing you see? Her cell phone, exploding with all the messages from guys she just met. This means that you have competition.
Then you have to do something to get their attention. Something to stand out from all the other men who text her.
Start by playing it safe. Depending on how close you got to her during your face-to-face interaction, before she gives you her number, you should talk to her about something during that conversation.
Try not to think about it too much; leave it open with a simple “Hey, what are you doing, miss?” and you can add a smiley emoticon if you want. Then you wait for their response. If she’s busy, she’ll let you know or text you when she gets the chance. You can also try a message that shows that you were really paying attention and listening.
Such as: “Hi Jane, how was your shopping trip? Did you find something you liked?”
After she responds, send her a flirty and playful message, something like, “Oh, nice dress. You can wear that when we go out for drinks.” The point is to show that you are paying attention, keeping the conversation flirty and fun.
2) short and sweet
You must ensure that your messages are short and direct. Don’t send him big corny or needy messages. That will turn it off. Simple, striking, short and interesting texts.
Make sure to fit the style of your writing. If he gives you two or three word answers, you should answer in the same way, not send him four screens of text in your answer.
3) make her laugh
If he doesn’t do anything else, try to get some laughs out of him. You’d be surprised how important a sense of humor is for women to be attracted to a man. If she thinks you are funny, she will be much more attracted to her.
Some fun texts to send:
1) “I just came from the bookstore. You won’t believe what I just saw. It made me think of you …”
2) “Today I am 5% more impressive than yesterday. What is your daily level of awesomeness?”
3) “I just flew in a private UFO and saw your twin sister, or was she a clone? Do you know anything about this?”
Try to be creative and also think about your own texts.
