Being abandoned by the man you love is a horrible feeling. Unfortunately, it is something that happens to women all the time. You are crazy about your boyfriend, you are quietly planning your future with him and he approaches you and tells you that it is over for him. It is devastating. If you love it deeply, there is a way to get it back. You need to be careful about how you approach him after the breakup, even whether or not you should ask your ex boyfriend to accept you.
If you ask your ex boyfriend for a second chance shortly after they are done, his answer will undoubtedly be “no.” However, worse than his response is the message you are sending him about yourself. If you beg someone to take you back after a breakup, you are essentially telling them that they are the center of your universe and that you are not complete without them. As romantic as this notion may seem to women, men find it annoying and unappealing. You should never ask him to accept you, but you must find a way for him to do what he asks of you.
A single act can change your entire breakup and most women can’t imagine doing it. You have to tell your ex boyfriend that you think separation is the best thing for both of you. You have to contain your emotions, bite your lip if you feel a tear form, and gently tell him that you completely agree with him about the breakup. This is going to seem impossible to do if you still love him, but it is essential if you really want him back. What you do by doing this is changing your feeling of rejection of yourself towards him. He will never see it coming. If he knows that you still love him, he will expect you to fight tooth and nail to keep him. If you don’t, you become a challenge to him once again, and he will be drawn to you. You will not have to ask your ex boyfriend for another chance at that moment because he will be the one to ask you.
