Is it so important that your ego proves to yourself that you are superior or do you feel that the person is more important? Life is like a roller coaster and there are many ups and downs. While you are in difficulties, only those close to you keep you motivated, while when you are on top, it is very important that you keep those people close.
So 9 golden rules to amend everything that has been done wrong:
be patient and calm
Communication is usually the key to any relationship. So when you are going through a good or bad phase, it is best to remain calm and not be reactive to any situation. Instead, give your loved one time and space.
Be empathetic and understand more
Whenever you feel like you have lost hope of saving your relationship. Break. Yeah! Pause and think again about what is tearing you apart. If you were in his place, would you have behaved in the same way and would you have understood his cause?
Very easy to do the 2 F’s
Talk, forgive and forget. Just do the basics and get everything working fine again. Understand, in a relationship someone has to be responsible.
Give Space and Breathe
Every relationship needs time and space. If you are arguing or going through a rough patch, then realize that everything can never be fixed all at once. So give space and take space. Time is the best tantra healing, it fixes everything by itself, so do it and never stop making efforts to revive.
Don’t feel pressured to regret, but feel responsible.
If you feel like you’ve made a mistake, own up to it and move on. Be responsible for your actions and move on. Do not criticize or discuss the situation too much so that it is painful for the other and keep your expectations low.
If a pardon can close a case, say so.
Sometimes the three magic words do it all. “I’m sorry” is all that is required, so don’t delay, say and close the chapter. Go to the next hill because the important thing is the climb.
Be honest
Always be honest and truthful about your feelings. Sometimes sugar coating does more damage than the hard truth, so don’t let others scrutinize and play games with your relationships. Always be transparent and honest.
for your heart
You heard me say what is in your heart and smile because you deserve to be loved. In the same way always appreciate the feelings of your love. Two-way communication always helps.
change for the better
Last but not least, if you love him so much and they want better for you, then there is nothing wrong with changing. Everyone changes unconsciously, so it’s okay to make a conscious effort to make her happy.
