According to psychologists, breakups are the main cause of depression. After all, it’s never easy to watch years of your life collapse around you. Fortunately, most breakouts are reversible! That’s why, in this article, I’ll show you how you can start dating your ex again, and how doing it can bring her back in just 17 days.
First of all, it is important to allow some time to pass after the breakup. In my experience, two weeks is the minimum period during which they should not be contacted under any circumstances. The goal is for both of you to calm down and start thinking about what happened, as well as to improve emotionally and hopefully get out of that begging / pleading / stalking phase that we all go through after a breakup.
After two weeks of no contact, call your ex and suggest meeting her for lunch. If he was serious about the relationship, then he will wonder where he disappeared, so he will probably say yes.
When you meet, it’s important to treat your ex like a date or an old friend rather than an ex-girlfriend. Pretend you’ve never dated this woman before and talk about light and fun things. Avoid talking about your relationship and resist the temptation to think about the past and discuss old grudges. There will be a time for that later, when the two of you are together again!
Why is it important to act like you are on a date? Simply put, women crave more emotional than logical emotions. The more you can involve her emotionally, the better the bond you will form and the greater the chances that she will want you back. However, when it comes to emotional emotions, most women would find dating someone new much more exciting than seeing their ex.
