I assume you are one of the many people who have been dumped? Or did you make the biggest mistake and end the relationship yourself? And now you want to go back with the person you love? There is only one way to do this right and that is the right way. Do you want to get your ex back? Learn to play hard to get it and make him or her want you!
Many people who break up eventually want to get back together. And most of the time that counts for both sides. Not only the one being dumped, but also the other person who did the dumping will be very eager to start over. That opens a new window of opportunity, doesn’t it?
This means that you are probably not the only one who wants to get back together. There is a very good chance that your ex wants you back too. Congratulations, now let’s get to work. How do we get your ex back? We play a fair game.
First, we have established the new you. And by that I mean you need to control yourself and make yourself feel good about yourself. This is not a game you can play when you are not completely sure and convinced that you control the outcome. So you have to enjoy being you. You’re still single, though you’re about to change that. Why not enjoy being single for a while? There’s nothing wrong with that, right?
When you start having fun, it will show. And all the mutual friends you have (or had) will notice that you’re having a good time. So obviously for them you are not suffering from the breakup. This message will eventually reach your ex. And he or she will wonder what you are doing. Mission accomplished! You are having fun and your ex is thinking of you.
The next move you make has a lot to do with how you look. Even if you have a painful need to get back into the relationship, you won’t show any signs of need. Not even for another part-time lover. Remember that you want to get your ex back and not hate yourself.
So have fun without openly flirting with any potentially interesting guys or girls. When the same group of mutual friends find out about your new approach, they won’t be able to keep it to themselves. And your ex will find out that you haven’t moved on yet. Strike two! All you need to do now is wait for the first time the two of you will meet again.
You could arrange a meeting by accident. For example, you could show up at the same party next week. When you see each other again and they ask you how you have been, you will have to try to be as vague as possible. Be nice and talk a bit, but don’t let them know that all you want is to get back together.
You play this game at the most experienced level. You play hard to get. Take this opportunity to stay in sight and have them follow you around the dance floor. Maybe you’ll get a chance to move your feet together. And one thing will lead to another. To land!
