Every person is different, knows different things, acts differently, does different things, and you wonder how we all get along. Well, some of us get along with everyone, some people don’t get along with many people. Some people need encouragement and some people need advice and some people need praise. Everyone enjoys all those things. If you want to be a real estate agent and someone says you could be. Most likely you are just a real estate agent. Everyone needs a little encouragement. OK great, all the things you already know.
Let’s talk about work and fun. If you are in the university and you are studying, that is work. If you’re writing, that’s work. If you’re talking to someone, that’s work. You may think, how does hanging out with my friends work? Well, you’re talking, when you could be writing, and talking and writing are the same thing. You are also learning, everyone can help you with different types of advice. You can’t really control other people, you can only try to control yourself. You can give the best advice you can to your friends, but that’s about it.
In college everyone has friends. They are surrounded by friends all the time. It’s so easy to make friends in college. College is FOR friends and degrees, of course. When you’re out of college, you’ve found other ways to make friends. You can’t really meet friends at your job, well you CAN, but you usually want to meet friends of the opposite sex that you want to marry. So you have to find other places to hang out. Like Starbucks or the beach or wherever it’s a cool place to hang out with each other. You can meet up with close friends at work or wherever you want to meet them. Also, when you go out in public, it’s much easier to meet people if you already have a friend or friends with you. Although you can meet people on your own, it just takes more time.
