Come Valentine’s Day, our society increases its focus on couples, romance, and diamonds. What if you’re not in a meaningful relationship? You are likely to feel even more frustrated, lonely, or disappointed at this time of year. But take heart, making a few easy changes to the way you manifest a soul mate will certainly produce the result you desire. Take a look at the top five mistakes people make when it comes to attracting a soul mate and change your approach today.
1. forgetting to pray – First on the list for hindering your efforts to attract a soul mate is forgetting to pray. A proven method of prayer to manifest a soul mate (or anything else you desire) is Positive Prayer or Spiritual Mind Treatment. Positive Prayer is basically affirmative prayer, which is the foundation of all your spiritual work, so make it part of your daily routine. I know we are busy and lives are hectic; however, this easy and powerful method will make your heart’s desire come true. The more you feel the better because you will be more deeply aligned with the Divine Presence and that brings peace, love, joy, harmony and health just to name a few. Definitely positive. Prayer is the way to put the law of attraction into action.
2. Holding on to the past Have you ever been in a relationship for too long? Even if the relationship is over, do you still hold on to it or even compare the new people in your life to the old ones? We become entrenched, or stuck, in this pattern and there is no room in the heart for someone new to enter until we release the past. If you’re not convinced that you need to leave old ties behind, consider the story of Clytie and Apollo. Clytie was a water nymph who loved the sun god Apollo with all her heart. But Apollo did not love her; he loved Daphne. Clytie would not let go of her love for Apollo. So she languished for nine days sitting all day on the cold ground without eating or drinking while her tears saturated the earth. Clytie she would stare at the sun and she would follow Apollo, when she would rise and go through her daily course. She saw nothing but Apollo with his face constantly turning to follow the movements of the sun. Finally, his limbs rooted into the ground and her face turned into a sunflower. To this day, the sunflower turns on its stem to face the sun through its daily course. Because? Because she retains the feeling of the nymph from which she came. Pay attention to Clytie and don’t become attached to a previous relationship or someone who doesn’t have the capacity to love you back. Plant a new seed in your consciousness, release the past with love, be grateful for the gifts given and the lessons learned. Bess the past and move on.
3. Using negative self-talk or criticism. – If you feel like no one loves you, it’s easy to fall into a pattern of self-loathing, self-loathing, or even guilt or shame. However, these are very destructive and can block the flow of a partner coming into your life. When you master the art of loving kindness for yourself, your energy will attract it in the same way. Set the intention to change the way you think and you will begin to see a wonderful transformation in your life. If you start criticizing or blaming yourself for not having a partner, say: I am a worthy and loving child of God. And remember that as you increase prayer in your life, you will see these negative patterns dissolve and be replaced with kindness and love towards yourself and others. Another way to dispel negative thoughts, self-criticism, or self-pity is to ask Archangel Chamuel for help. He is the angel of love and he will help you find a soul mate. He will not only help you overcome depression, unforgiveness, pain, and grief, but will also help you deepen compassion for yourself and others.
4. Outline or tell God how– We are very good at telling God how to do something and how it should look, which is called an outline. While we want to have a specific image in our mind of our soul mate, for example, someone who has certain characteristics like loving, humorous, intelligent, kind, gentle, etc., we don’t want to tell God who that person is. it is either what hair color or body shape the person should have or where we should meet them (eg, at work, at the gym, at church, on the Internet). So remember to have a mental equivalent of you and your soul mate having fun together, but please don’t have a specific person in mind. If you do, you’re limiting Power and could eliminate a wonderful companion that Spirit bonds you with. So be flexible and let God do the work.
5. Focusing on physical beauty.– In our youth-obsessed society, we can fall into the trap of thinking we have to spend a lot of money on cosmetic surgery, painful and expensive injections to reduce wrinkles, or take the latest diet pill to be attractive enough for true love. . According to a recent study, more than half a million teens have an eating disorder. This is largely due to the media’s emphasis on a rail-thin body that just isn’t realistic. Advertisers have admitted to airbrushing photos of models to make their waists unnaturally thin. Many women (and men too) try to achieve an unrealistic and unnatural look and may even become obsessed with this pursuit. Don’t fall into this trap. The important thing is to keep your physical body in shape, exercise regularly and eat well to stay physically fit and radiate beauty from within. Your soul mate will be drawn to a beautiful spirit, one that is achieved through spiritual aptitude, not surgical procedures. When you are in spiritual alignment with God, your ego cannot prompt you to have negative thoughts or sadness. A spiritually animated person is attractive from the inside out and that is a magnet for true love.
Next steps
Above all, on Valentine’s Day and every day, remember that you are always connected with God; therefore always connected to love. Every time you fear loneliness, you feel separated from God. So celebrate the Divine Love within you and know that if you are looking for a soulmate relationship and don’t fall into the traps listed above, that soulmate relationship is on its way to you on Cupid’s wings right now.
