It is a proven fact.
People do not value the things that come to them.
easy.
The same can be said of men who
making yourself too available to women
they are interested
However, it is a subtle balance. How do you persist?
with a woman and be a challenge at the same time?
It’s a question I get ALL the time.
Let me tell you a little secret:
In a woman’s mind, she has a little switch. (Nope
a real switch, it’s just a metaphor) And we call
which change the “Switch without challenge”.
If that switch ever flips, you’re pretty
much cooked. Out of the game, so to speak.
So you want to be sure you never flip it over.
There are some behaviors that do this. Any
monitoring:
1. Calling her at a predictable time.
If you call a woman at a predictable time like
once a day, or even once every other day, she
pick up on the pattern. She just won.
She feels that no matter what she does or says to
you will always have that security of yours
regular phone call. You are not a challenge, and
there’s no reason for her to plan and argue
with her friends on how to get you.
His conspiracy to get you = Good.
Her talking about you = Good.
She waiting for your regular call = Bad.
2. Constantly answering your calls
If you answer his call every time, then
this does two things. First of all, it shows
to her that you are VERY interested. After all,
Who consistently answers their phone these days?
Second, it shows him that you don’t have much
going on in your life and you’re probably not very
occupied. This is not attractive to her. she wants a man
that has a life of its own and is actively pursuing
their own passions.
3. Always trying to hook up with her.
Yeah, every time you talk to her, you make it a point
to try to hook up with her, she’s going out
as desperate or needy. she will feel compelled
she will feel like you want something from her.
Sometimes you should just call her on your own.
fun. Call just to pass the time when
They are driving. Call her just to tell her about
Something crazy happened to you at work.
When I say you should be a challenge, I don’t mean
that you should be an idiot. What I just want to say is
that you put value on your own life. put value on
your time. Be unpredictable, be unavailable sometimes
but when you are with her give her experiences
and moments you will never forget.
