Would you believe that love can disappear in the blink of an eye? Based on the facts that I am going to share with you, it CAN happen. A couple who have been together for a few years for only one day would wake up to find that they no longer loved their partner. It is as if he slept tonight and the next morning he no longer feels anything for his partner.
Why is this so? Of course, we need to know what caused this kind of thing. But, what we are going to state here are just observations of different relationships of people.
First, there could be the possibility that a couple over seven years old and not yet married MAY BE TIRED of each other. In the case of the woman, she must have expected to be married at that time but the man has not asked her yet, so there is a tendency to think that they will never marry at all, so instead of waiting more years the woman finally she decides to leave the man for someone who will marry her sooner. Or it may also be that either of you is tired of doing the same things we call routine. If things go like this, there is a greater chance that they will think that their married life is just as boring as their existing relationship. So, they decide to leave each other, hoping to find someone who will truly make them happy again.
Another reason could be the person’s attitude towards the partner. The situation that I am going to give you occurs mainly with some couples. This couple has been together for over five years. Their friends see them as a happy couple when they are together. But little did they know that behind the happy and cheerful couple that they see during the holidays it was not like that. The man is a perfectionist and the woman is shy. Every day of her life, the man kept discouraging her, saying bad things to her, making her feel bad about herself from head to toe (physically and emotionally). Not just with his job, but even with the friends he has, the clothes he wears, this man’s endless bad word made the woman feel like the ugliest person in the world. Until one day the man left her. At first he cried, but realized that he was actually free from the chains of a very abusive person who made his life miserable most of the time. Instead of harvesting beautiful memories that they both shared, the ones they remembered were the ugly ones. In just a few months, she found someone who encouraged her and made her a beautiful new person from the inside out.
The man tried to win back the woman but failed. Now, you see in this type of relationship, there is no growth. This is a VERY POOR HEALTH relationship, in which negativity resonates around you. An abusive word should have stopped if the woman stood up for herself instead of accepting every bad word she hears from the man. Each individual should always remember that “No one should look down on you.” Put an end to it, what seems to be wrong in this relationship is that the woman continued to accept and remain silent and did not even try to say what she really feels. Or we could also suppose that the woman tries to tell the man, but it turned out that the man is stronger than the woman and more or less dominates her or does not listen to what she says. If your boyfriend has been like this for years and years, you better leave him. He’s just a selfish idiot who only thinks about himself. Relationships like this must be made. Don’t wait a couple of years before you get out of it. Think now! Do you want a life like this?
In relation to the example given about abusive words, we will also include physical abuse. If a man hits you and says he’s sorry afterward and then you forgive him, that’s a big no no! Because once you accepted the first pardon, you will always accept the hits and blows and any physical injuries you may have. The first time this happens, report it to the police. If just in case the man always pulls you or grabs you by the shoulder and leaves you a bruise that is already physical abuse. Never let anyone hurt you. If a man really loves a woman, he would never hurt you, but he will always be patient. This is why some women also abandon their partners. Some of them put up with the years of being beaten by their partners and when they’ve had enough, it’s time for them to leave. Others who have not had enough even die from the beatings they receive from their husbands. Women, do you like this to happen to you?
The following case is quite different. This couple is totally happy. Even their friends would say that they really are a great couple when they are together. Always having fun and always completing us. Then one day the man just leaves the woman for no valid reason. Now how would you react to that? If you were the woman, what would you think? Let’s say, for example, that the woman is very understanding, she always cares about the man and all the good things that this woman can offer. I could say that maybe the man has a long-held problem that he didn’t tell the woman. Most men have trouble opening up to the person they love, or sometimes people who are really close to them. Unlike women, they can easily share their problems with their friends, letting their emotions run out of them, unlike men. In cases like these, don’t give up on your man. Try to clear things up with him so you don’t get your jaw off when this kind of thing happens to you. If you don’t want to talk about it, you may need space or time to think about your problems on your own and you may want to figure it out. Wait a week or two for your man to come back and apologize. But if in case he never calls you again and has vanished into thin air, accept the fact that he has already left you because he is ready to go to some kind of Looney bin. Although, you have to make sure there is no third party involved because if there is another woman involved who is a case closed, find another man who is not a womanizer!
Women are apparently patient by nature. They often make sacrifices and try to be patient with their partner. They keep trying to continue the relationship until they’ve had enough. Often some of them become martyrs and it takes them a couple of years to realize that it is enough. If you find yourself in a situation like the one in these examples, think for yourself. Is that a healthy relationship that you are in? Did you try everything you could before you left the relationship? Women need to know when to stop and when to try to get it right. You choose your own life and make your own destiny. Learn to fight and be strong because only you can help yourself.
