Realistically, you know that getting back together with your ex will take a bit of effort and a lot of understanding. The end of a romantic relationship can be incredibly painful. In many cases, it is the woman who suffers the brunt of this pain. All her hopes and dreams of a future with the man she loves are crumbled. If you are that man, you have some work ahead of you if you want to erase the past and get her to love you again. You really only have one chance to get it back. This is why you need to be prepared before making a move to get your heart back.
Obviously, taking the safest route possible is the way to go if you want to get a woman back. At first, you thought you might believe that she is doing something wildly romantic like sending her dozens and dozens of roses or writing her a love song. Those are definitely heartwarming, but right after the end of the relationship, they’re not welcome. Any great gesture like that will set her back further. The reason is that she will think that you are trying to undo everything that happened between the two of you by impressing her with something big. Don’t make this mistake.
You need to take a proven approach to get it back. That should start with an apology from you. If you want to clear the air and the past, you have to swallow your pride and tell him that you are sorry for the pain that the breakup caused him. It may not seem like she accepts it, but it will touch her.
Also, don’t continually pressure her to get back together. If you’ve told her once that you wish the two of you could try again, she knows. Reminding her over and over will make her feel uncomfortable and she will withdraw emotionally until the two of you rarely speak.
Instead, you need to show her that you want to be someone she can depend on, regardless of the promise of something romantic in the future. That will ensure that he knows that being a part of his life is the most important thing to you. From there, it’s about regaining her affection and trust by being a supportive friend. Make her smile, laugh and trust you again and she will open her heart again and you will have the second chance you want.
