There are hundreds of guides out there that are meant to teach you how to get an ex back, but as you try to absorb all that information, you might be left more confused than before you know something.
So it’s important to keep things simple, and I’m here to tell you that all of these different methods of getting an ex back can be divided into two groups. Yes, only two groups.
The bottom line is that either you use an aggressive strategy to get an ex back or you use a passive strategy. It’s as simple as that, but choosing the right strategy can be a bit more complicated than that.
To give you an example, if you were particularly clingy during the breakup, it may be wise to passively appeal to your ex that you’ve moved on now.
On the other hand, if you had calmly accepted your breakup, there’s a good chance your ex would have felt like they meant very little to you to begin with. This situation may require you to aggressively appeal to your ex so that you still have feelings for him or her.
As you can see, some circumstances require you to act fast and to be a little more direct in your approach to getting your ex back. Similarly, other different circumstances may require you to be much more patient and indirect in conducting your business. You need to choose the right approach based on the type of breakup you had and how you behaved after the breakup. No matter how cool he was with his breakup, if he broke down shortly after the breakup and begged his ex to take him back, his situation would be no different than being clingy during the breakup.
At the end of the day, the key to getting an ex back is not just what you do, but how you do what needs to be done is just as critical. Analyze your breakup, think about how you behaved after the breakup, and you’ll be able to take the right approach once those things are worked out.
Whatever you decide to do to get your ex back, make sure you know when to be aggressive and when to be passive with your approach. Master this and you’ll be well on your way to making your ex want you back. This is how you get an ex back.
