Moving on is one of the most exhausting phases of life change that a person must go through. Some people never really move on and get stuck trying to cure the pain forever. A broken heart after a relationship is normal, but the pain that comes with it is sometimes too overwhelming to bear. It’s okay. You will be forgiven if you get drunk and hide in your room for as long as you want. Eventually, you will need to start moving on from a relationship, learn to walk away, and never look back.
- love yourself again. After all the drama, you must have completely forgotten about yourself. Get up and get your hair done. Visit the spa and let yourself be pampered. Eat your favorite ice cream. Watch all the DVDs you never had a chance to play. Take the time to be absolutely beautiful and marvel at the great idea that you are single once again.
- Go out with your family and friends. This is one of the most crucial times when you need to vent out her negative feelings with people other than her lost love, who will be perfect listeners as well as her family and friends. Now is the time when you can keep up with lost time, missed birthday parties and weekend visit. Catch up, talk and celebrate being loved.
- Start a hobby and surrender to your passions. Of course, do not forget the fact that you will have to be busy. With nothing to do, you will tend to think more and more about your broken relationship, to open wounds again and to the perpetual questioning of why why? Go to the gym, be in a band, start a business, or start writing. They are all going to be therapeutic.
- take time to heal. Getting over a relationship will not happen overnight. Yes, it is completely normal to cry, moan and be devastated. This is all part of your healing process. Deal with your frustration and disappointment slowly but surely by not divulging too much of your time thinking about the past and the myriad reasons why it didn’t work out. Accept the fact that some things just have to end and it’s much better to move on than try to fix something that will break forever.
