Interestingly, the first question most men have about sex 3 in bed (especially if MFF is their fantasy) actually has a simple answer:
Q. How do I get a girl to have a threesome with me?
A. Ask!
Countless e-books and magazine articles have been written on the subject, but 9 times out of 10, it will give clues that this is one of your fantasies. From there, it’s a simple matter of progressing her to the point where she will actually have the threesome in real life.
As all men know, picking up their clues can sometimes be like learning a different language. Indications that she is interested in a threesome fantasy generally range from subtle, but clear, to unnerving. What you are looking for are answers to things rather than your words. If she responds well to movies with a bisexual element or admits to being attracted to actresses in movies, then she’s obviously sending you some massive clues. Women tend to be even more subtle than that and she may tell you stories of couples having threesomes or mention it as a joke to test your reaction. While the ways she will tell you vary greatly, she will try to get the message across if you listen long enough.
Once she tells you she’s interested, a lot of guys make a mistake by labeling her ‘bisexual’ or similar. While some women wear this label proudly, most don’t want the kind of dramatic lifestyle change that these labels imply, they simply want to live out a fantasy. Most couples who have a lot of threesomes use girl-girl words or even refer to the third person as a ‘toy’ so that they can indulge in the fantasy without any additional emotional baggage.
How to go from ‘interested’ to a threesome
The next steps involve moving smoothly into fantasy. It can be difficult for a woman to find herself in a threesome, as reality is often different from the fantasy in her head. The progression can take many forms, such as using erotic movies to give you an idea of what it would be like (make sure the movie is suitable for women, although many are not) or even taking her to a strip club and letting her have fun. there. As a general rule, most strippers have no problem with female lap dancing as long as they are paid properly.
How to: Tips for Threesomes
The last thing that needs to be established are the ‘ground rules’. Threesomes are not just one type, there are many. In addition to the standard varieties MMF (short for 2 males and one female in bed) and MFF (short for male-female-female), there are other types that include:
* Both partners have sex with the third person.
* Only one couple has sex with the third person (the man looks at the two girls together and does not join / The man has sex with each girl in turn). It is worth mentioning that some women will want a threesome, but will not have sex with the other woman.
* Neither has sex with the third person, for example, the third person masturbates while the couple has sex with each other. This is rare, but it happens and falls into the category of voyeuristic fantasy.
In addition, it is worth taking some time to define general rules, especially who has sex with whom and what is allowed. Many good fantasies are ruined by not clearly defining what is allowed and what is not. This will make a big difference during the threesome and could make a difference in your relationship.
