It hasn’t sunk in quite yet…Your wife wants to leave you and file for divorce.
YOU do not want and YOU believe that the marriage can be saved.
You KNOW that you are not ready to throw in the towel on your marriage, no matter how bad things have gotten in the last few months.
If you want to find out how you can change your wife’s mind and make her WANT to get back into your marriage, then this is the article for you. If you can’t even begin to stand the thought of your wife walking out the door and never coming back, throughout this article you’ll learn what she can do to change your mind and win her back.
Don’t worry, even if you don’t find what you’re looking for here, I tell you right now that there is hope for a better future.
No matter what you do from here, just remember that where there is a will there is a way. Below you will find the most effective tips to get your wife to come back to you when she wants a divorce.
#one. Remember she’s past the point of rationality
You need to set a very clear goal to get your wife back, and it’s not about changing her OPINION. You see, at this point her wife is WAY past the point where she’s going to be thinking with her brain.
At this point, it’s all about his heart… So what should you do?
Instead of trying to alter your brain’s perception of your wife (or in other words: the way she thinks of you), focus on the way you feel. It should aim to heighten her wife’s emotional view of you, if that makes sense, and it’s not going to happen because of any arguments you throw at her.
Basically, it’s going to take a good old-fashioned romance to get your wife back, because that’s one of the only ways you’re going to be able to affect the REAL way she sees you; with your heart
And don’t even think about trying to tell your wife about all the tax benefits of staying together, or “What would my parents say?” or “What about the children” or things like that. At this point, for her wife, it’s all about her.
#two. Think about your first days of dating
Listen, if you and your wife have been married for a while, then chances are at least a small part of your wife really does NOT want to be single again.
I mean, our society puts a LOT of pressure on women to secure a marriage while they’re young, and that social pressure can often be manipulated to their advantage.
How?
Well, because it means that if your wife is given the chance, she’ll want to stay with you. You just have to make her HEART realize that she wants to stay. And how do you do that exactly? Well, you will have to start being much more flirty, charming and manly for her. Basically, remind her why she married you.
Make it your goal to get your wife to have just ONE second thought about leaving. As soon as she acknowledges even an iota of doubt about her decision, your job becomes MUCH easier. Trust me.
#3. The real trick: making her WANT to come back
This is the really hardest part of getting your wife back… making her WANT to get back into the marriage. However, while this probably sounds impossible right now, it has to happen before you can hope for a better marriage.
Just remember that there are a few select things you can do to prove to your wife that you’re legit and make her start wanting to get back together with you. If you can understand what things her wife is looking for and what exactly is causing her to leave, then you can make efforts to correct those problems.
This alone will make your wife more likely to stay.
Just remember that a part of your wife loved you. If you can reawaken that side of her, then your job is pretty much done for you.
