There are simple rules to follow if you want to know how to text a girl.
the first text
The first text should always relate in some way to the first time you posted the girl in person. A text message is always your second impression. Try to relate the message to a funny or interesting topic from your last conversation with her. You should also introduce her to who you are if she might not know your number.
After she answers
Let’s hope she responds positively to your message. You made it interesting and you made it funny wrong, right? Ok, now is the time to start building attraction. To do this, you must remain interesting. Take her time and respond with something witty again. The best part is that you can take some time to think before answering. You don’t have to think of something immediately. In fact, it’s better not to respond right away because you want to make him think you’re a busy guy.
Flirting
Keep flirting with her by calling her names and teasing her over text. These types of messages are more likely to illicit a response. If you are not challenging it, it will stop responding. Also, it’s good to drop subtle sexual hints.
Date setting
If this is only the second interaction you’ve had with the girl, it’s best not to ask her out on a typical date. Tell her that you are going to a party or do something interesting with some friends if she wants to join you. Tell him that you need to buy some clothes and that he should come help you do some shopping. The opportunities are endless. Just don’t ask her to go to an Italian dinner where she will be with you for hours. Keep it loose and without pressure.
