If someone has not been able to move forward in at least one area of their life, they might believe that it is because of what is happening “out there.” What is happening in the external world will then be the reason why your life is the way it is.
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This may be backed up by the fact that they may have been doing all the “right” things. In other words, they will not have been sitting around waiting for their life to change; they will have been taking action.
A natural result
As a result of what they have been doing, however long they have been doing it, hopefully they believe they have little or no control over what is happening. In short, they will have done everything they can to keep going.
They may have also talked to their friends and family about what is happening, and these people validate their point of view. Thanks to the feedback they have received from others, then, there will be no reason for them to consider that there might be something missing.
A heavyweight
By seeing yourself as powerless to change this area of your life, you could end up having a negative impact on almost every other area of your life. It can be as if there is a dark cloud following them wherever they go, preventing them from basking in the blazing sun that is also outside.
Still, they could do their best not to get too caught up in what’s going on and hold their heads high. There may be times when you can step away from how you view this area of your life and wonder if there is something that you are not aware of.
A strange scenery
Now if you are someone who has “high self esteem” and you think you deserve to do well in this area of your life, it will naturally be confusing. By doing so, they should be able to move forward.
After all, this is considered a key part of what will enable someone to perform well in life. If they have this part down and they are taking measurements, they should not be in the position that they are in.
Something is not right
If they are being repressed by what is happening externally, they will have to wait for the external world to change in order for their life to change. It will be as if they are very lucky and will hope that their luck will change sooner rather than later.
This will be a very desperate place to be and one may feel depressed at times. However, although one could be like this, what if they have control over what is happening and are not powerless or unfortunate?
Deepening
What will have to be reflected on is that they have both a conscious and an unconscious mind. So if they cannot experience something, they are likely to show that their unconscious mind does not agree with what they want.
Without this understanding, it will be natural for you to believe that what is happening “out there” is the problem. This part of them wants to hold them and is trying to sabotage them, it is simply trying to keep them alive.
Two Views
Consciously, one can believe that if they were to advance in an area of their life, it would allow them to grow and expand. Therefore, for this part of them, having what they want will be a safe and purely positive thing.
Unconsciously, one may believe that if they were to advance in this area of their life, he would reject them and not love them. Therefore, for this part of them, having what they want will be seen as something insecure and uniquely negative.
Back in time
At this point, one might wonder why they would believe something like this on a deeper level. This could be seen as something that just doesn’t make any sense and is likely due to the fact that they will see what is happening through the eyes of an adult.
For you to understand why your unconscious mind would be like this, and for it to make sense to your conscious mind, it is likely essential that you take a closer look at what happened during your younger years. For example, this may have been a time in their life when they were not encouraged to express their true selves and, in order for them to receive attention, acceptance, and approval, they had to please their caregivers.
The foundations were laid
This stage in their life would have led them to create an internal model of what they needed to do to survive. It wouldn’t have mattered that this meant neglecting themselves, as their survival was more important than expressing themselves.
Then the years would have passed and the conscious mind would have completely forgotten what happened all along. Even so, this inner model will continue to define what they do and what they do not allow themselves to experience.
Awareness
Ultimately, one will have to connect with their second mind and question the beliefs and associations that were formed early on. Once this part of them is on board with your conscious mind, your life should gradually change.
If you can relate to this and are ready to change your life, you may need to seek outside help. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.
