For whatever reason, many couples stop experimenting sexually as their relationship matures. In fact, this is the best time for couples to experiment, as the extra familiarity with each other’s bodies leads to great sex and massive orgasms. Try these 10 sexy tips and spice up your sex life.
1. Experiment with girl-on-top sex positions
A common misconception is that the cowgirl is the only girl-on-top sex position. In fact, there are many sexy ideas for couples to experiment with. Try having him lean back, forward, or to the opposite side of you for a few different and exciting positions.
2. Experiment with Bondage (sort of).
One misconception is that slavery is just about dark rooms and people wearing gimp masks. If you like that, it can be fun, but for most of us it’s better to experiment a little. Instead of going to extremes, just use anything close to the bed to tie it up. Clothes, sheets and even curtains can act as ties and give a sexy image of getting lost in the heat of the moment.
3. Simulation of threesomes
Threesomes are a common sexual fantasy for both men and women, yet women are very concerned about the possible consequences of taking someone into the bedroom. Therefore, many couples like to experiment with fantasy, but without risks. Put on your favorite scene from a movie, and when you start having sex, use your hands on it to tell it that a third person is touching it. As long as you use your voice effectively, this can be a really sexy fantasy for women.
4. Time for food and drink foreplay
While this fantasy has appeared in every movie (you know something is common when the Wayans brothers parody it!). However, if done right, it can be a sexy way to experiment in bed. The key is to choose a variety of textures and make sure a food is a smooth and sensual feeling.
5. Risky sex
Adding a little danger will spice up the sex. In addition to risking getting caught, experiment with sex in a slightly dangerous place (like near a fall). Just make sure you don’t get carried away, a court appearance and a fine won’t help any of your libidos.
6. Embrace the new orgasm technology.
New technologies always offer new ways to experiment sexually and one of them is ‘sexting’ (using your phone to send erotic messages). Whether you’re sending her hot messages to build anticipation between meetings or giving her a sexy reminder of a big night out, these messages add to the excitement and lust. The next time you see each other, you can look forward to great sex and explosive orgasms.
7. Kegel exercises for orgasm control
Word has spread that men can have multiple orgasms too, but don’t say anything! Start training like Rocky using these exercises and you’ll soon see what everyone has been talking about. Go champion, 10 more reps, come on!
8. Squirting orgasms / female ejaculation orgasms
Yes, they are possible. Yes, you can have them with your partner. Yes, they are as good for her as you heard! Learn the technique and let her go crazy tonight.
9. Multiple erogenous zone massage orgasms
Women are complicated creatures, but this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. If you discover all of your erogenous zones and stimulate them correctly, you will soon be able to have orgasms that you didn’t even know were possible.
10. ???
Smart people will have noticed that the list only has nine entries, that’s because you have to decide what number is ten. What is your ultimate fantasy, something that turns you on every time you think about it and, this is the best part, how can you make it come true?
