Have you ever wondered why a woman never texts or calls you after you’ve been on a date together?
I bet you start to think that she hasn’t had a good time, that she doesn’t like you, that you’re not good enough for her, or that she finds your company boring or unexciting.
Probably all of that.
She might start to tell you that a bad date won’t affect how she feels about you or how attracted she is to you, but she’d be lying. Especially if this is your first date with your new woman, it could all be over before it really started.
A woman will make up her mind about you in an instant. Not intentionally, but unconsciously! And it’s not just women who do it, men too.
I mean, you decided on her instantly. You decided that within a few minutes or even seconds of seeing or talking to her that you became sexually attracted to her.
So unless you’ve made a good impression at first, she’s not going to be interested in you.
Now, what about the moments leading up to the date? Did you decide where to go or did you ASK him?
Let me guess, you acted like the perfect gentleman and told her that she could decide… just be polite, kind and respectful?
Oh dude, you have a lot to learn about women, she was probably dreading the date from then on. She was attracted to you at first, that’s why she agreed to go on a date with you…but you just KILLED all the attraction in a second.
When you ASK a woman something like that, she will be mad at you. Because? Because you’re no different from all the other guys she’s dated in the past.
So after that false start, where did you go?
Dinner?
Films?
Great, you are on your way to becoming the most unattractive, unoriginal and boring date in your town. Listen, all men take a woman to a nice restaurant or to the movies. Did she fall asleep herself and finally date all those guys? I wouldn’t bet on it, so what makes you think you’ll have a chance if you do the EXACT same thing?
Think man, think: you have to be DIFFERENT!
Look, I’ll even admit that when you’ve been dating for about 3 months, taking your partner out for dinner isn’t a bad idea, but don’t do it on first dates.
Going to the movies is quite similar. Again, you hit a big cliché and what are you going to do? You can’t talk during the movie and not even think about pulling that lame arm over the shoulder trick. This isn’t Hollywood, this is the 21st century… and yes, it’s silly. (If you want to wrap your arm around her effectively, just do it by saying “come here…”)
Oh, and another thing: did you ask to kiss her?
If you did, then it should pat you on the butt right where it came from. NEVER ask, just do it. Women don’t like it when you leave the big decisions in their hands. You are the man, and YOU have to lead and take charge of situations so that the woman can follow.
So next time, take her shopping where you can tease her all day or go skating in the park. If you still don’t know how to kiss a woman effectively, she just stops talking, moves your hand to her neck and if she smiles and has those bright eyes…you can lean in and kiss her gently.
But if you delivered just another stereotypical quote like any other guy, you’ll share the same fate as every other guy she’s dated: “You’re a really nice guy and I had a great time, but let’s just be friends.”
To wrap this up real quick: Why don’t women ever call you after a date? Why should they…were you just like every other guy she’s dated in the past: nothing but boring? Why would a woman want to see you again?
Think about it!
