Are you in a marriage where you think my wife doesn’t love me?
It’s pretty heartbreaking, right? Probably even more than you thought.
Often times when we have trouble in our marriage … especially as men … we pretend to act tough, even to ourselves, until the day your wife drops the bomb on you. Things change pretty fast once you realize, OMG, my wife doesn’t love me anymore.
What should you do if you are in a marriage where you say that my wife does not love me
Now there are many things that may or may not be happening here. What I mean is that there is a remote possibility that you are also looking into this. Of course, there is also the possibility that you are right, or that your wife has actually told you, “I don’t love you!”
You, of course, would know more than I …
But either way, there are many things you could be doing differently that could make your marriage a much happier place to be. But for that to happen, it means that you have to start taking some responsibility and some action on YOUR part to change things.
You can’t really control what your wife does, but what you can do is influence how she feels about you. And no, there is no way I’m going to tell you to start kissing her ass, buying her presents, or whatever you would normally hear.
No! I’m going to tell you that you’ve lost … or maybe you’ve never had … the qualities that women need to be attracted to and be in love with a man the way you want your wife to be. While that may sound like bad news, it’s actually good news … because it means you can completely change this.
One thing you may have never been told, or learned because society often tells another story, is that what women really want is a leader. They want what some would call an ALPHA male. And when a husband doesn’t display those qualities of that type of woman, he usually ends up like you saying that my wife doesn’t love me.
Have you ever noticed that most people think that it is normal for feelings to deteriorate after a time in marriage? Most people think that after marriage, all the passion is supposed to just go away. Sex is supposed to stop, and attraction is supposed to be a thing of the past.
The honeymoon has just ended.
But does it have to be this way?
Absolutely not! The honeymoon ends because people no longer have the qualities that attracted others. Men lose their alpha male status … or leader … and the wife simply no longer responds to that man as she used to.
It’s not that she’s no longer attracted to you, or that she doesn’t love you anymore, she just doesn’t see you as the man she was once deeply in love and passionate about.
But you can change that. You can become the man she is attracted to … from the depths of her DNA, to the depths of her essence. It’s about getting back to being a real man (without becoming an idiot and having a great time). It is to be able to say that my wife is ultra attracted and turned on by me, that she is passionate about me again and never have to say that my wife does not love me again.
